How to Overcome Your All Or Nothing Mentality (with God!)
- Alexandra Kaval
- Sep 8
- 1 min read
Updated: Sep 8
Are you an all-or-nothing kind of a gal?
The type who goes all in or not at all - chasing perfection, chasing impact... but lately, it’s left you exhausted?
I see you. I am (or was!) you.
And while that drive has served you well in the past, it may now be stealing your peace, your time, and even your purpose.
What if the craving for perfection wasn’t a curse but a holy invitation?
A chance to stop striving and start trusting.
To surrender the outcome and walk with Jesus through the messy middle.
To rely on His strength, and not your own.
Sister, success isn’t in doing it perfectly.
Success is found in being led by the Lord.
In today's episode - How to Overcome Your All Or Nothing Mentality (with God), you'll learn how to let go of the all-or-nothing mindset and step forward in faith today.
He will meet you there.
"His power is made perfect in weakness." (2 Corinthians 12:9)
Watch on YouTube (@graceinmyspaces) or listen on the podcast via your favorite podcasting app. (Search Grace Space Christian Coaching!)
Share with friend who needs this reminder & bookmark this post for the next time perfectionism tries to steal your joy.
This message really spoke to me, Alexandra. It’s so easy to get caught up in perfectionism and forget that peace and purpose come from trusting God, not from achieving flawless results. I love how you described it as a “holy invitation” — that shift in perspective is powerful.
Interestingly, this “all-or-nothing” mindset shows up in other areas of life too — even among students striving for perfect grades. Sometimes, seeking assignment help can be a humble and wise step, allowing them to learn, grow, and manage stress without feeling like they’ve failed. It’s a great reminder that progress, not perfection, is what truly matters. 🙏✨